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Carmela Soprano Descriptive Personality Statistics

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Carmela Soprano is a character from The Sopranos.

This page summarizes crowd sourced ratings of their personality collected from users of the Statistical "Which Character" Personality Quiz. This website has recruited more than 3 million volunteers to rate characters on descriptive adjectives and other properties, which can be aggregated to create profiles that users can be matched to as part of a personality test. For more information about how the ratings were collected and how they are used, see the documentation.

Aggregated ratings for 400 descriptions

The table shows the average rating the character received for each descriptive item on a 1 to 100 scale and what that character's rank for the description is among all 2,000 characters in the database. It also shows the standard deviation of the ratings and how many different individuals submitted a rating for that description.

ItemAverage ratingRankRating standard deviationNumber of raters
family-first (not work-first)90.8339.330
manicured (not scruffy)90.313311.519
rich (not poor)89.917311.121
important (not irrelevant)89.617711.619
neat (not messy)88.98617.321
Italian (not Swedish)88.22217.022
pronatalist (not child free)87.6513.421
non-gamer (not gamer)86.86526.036
straight (not queer)86.117418.121
good-cook (not bad-cook)85.82917.833
domestic (not industrial)84.61616.333
gendered (not androgynous)84.629321.025
emotional (not unemotional)84.523114.619
tense (not relaxed)84.42679.814
neurotypical (not autistic)84.13222.614
extravagant (not thrifty)84.014024.221
permanent (not transient)83.53519.421
theist (not atheist)83.43517.417
self-disciplined (not disorganized)82.945520.627
believable (not poorly-written)82.421214.219
beautiful (not ugly)82.366026.924
statist (not anarchist)82.23918.420
persistent (not quitter)82.193521.423
devoted (not unfaithful)82.161718.914
loyal (not traitorous)82.066313.915
opinionated (not neutral)81.954118.533
rock (not rap)81.920513.621
basic (not hipster)81.810221.320
🐩 (not 🐒)81.014920.334
preppy (not punk rock)80.923420.919
tailor (not blacksmith)80.412818.118
bold (not shy)80.179615.934
stylish (not slovenly)80.132320.613
expressive (not monotone)80.130918.518
studious (not goof-off)80.048113.322
feminine (not masculine)79.932317.630
privileged (not oppressed)79.937820.222
offended (not chill)79.920014.323
tight (not loose)79.627617.525
dramatic (not comedic)79.634017.854
social (not reclusive)79.425616.925
perceptive (not unobservant)79.469821.727
city-slicker (not country-bumpkin)79.341721.523
sturdy (not flimsy)79.335226.218
on-time (not tardy)79.249519.458
human (not animalistic)79.142522.131
coordinated (not clumsy)78.252522.817
suspicious (not awkward)77.930621.326
urban (not rural)77.833220.325
unambiguous (not mysterious)77.414826.816
fresh (not stinky)77.451825.717
intense (not lighthearted)77.450823.016
Roman (not Greek)77.32817.419
tasteful (not lewd)77.225418.525
sad (not happy)77.224515.033
respectful (not rude)76.742013.015
civilized (not barbaric)76.755319.326
morning lark (not night owl)76.610520.019
loud (not quiet)76.542622.430
charming (not awkward)76.341521.925
diligent (not lazy)76.0112820.225
miserable (not joyful)75.829818.317
refined (not rugged)75.735616.421
scheduled (not spontaneous)75.545522.125
pretentious (not unassuming)75.533423.715
secretive (not open-book)75.548818.830
lavish (not frugal)75.427324.127
existentialist (not nihilist)75.36511.014
legit (not scrub)74.862526.627
triggered (not trolling)74.620216.328
serious (not playful)74.555417.222
frenzied (not sleepy)74.556118.829
biased (not impartial)74.237826.615
normal (not weird)74.010822.426
mature (not juvenile)73.846923.231
pro (not noob)73.878325.120
treasure (not trash)73.892722.726
fast-talking (not slow-talking)73.442923.918
literary (not mathematical)73.229919.717
attractive (not repulsive)73.087723.432
healthy (not sickly)73.068620.532
conservative (not liberal)73.018122.126
OCD (not ADHD)73.045222.538
protagonist (not antagonist)73.076126.619
sexual (not asexual)72.964821.351
builder (not explorer)72.817121.818
👟 (not 🥾)72.826528.248
🎨 (not 🏀)72.765717.846
judgemental (not accepting)72.640224.530
involved (not remote)72.455620.323
angry (not good-humored)72.425619.025
competent (not incompetent)72.399728.418
soulful (not soulless)72.388420.617
demanding (not unchallenging)72.286225.552
deliberate (not spontaneous)72.160422.728
active (not slothful)72.0103225.934
traditional (not unorthodox)71.926728.830
centrist (not radical)71.87220.917
bourgeoisie (not proletariat)71.733929.321
predictable (not quirky)71.716923.829
works hard (not plays hard)71.568726.317
official (not backdoor)71.523125.120
🤑 (not 🤠)71.531027.036
haunted (not blissful)71.565420.142
frank (not sugarcoated)71.180930.913
f***-the-police (not tattle-tale)71.166730.625
proper (not scandalous)70.842120.622
jaded (not innocent)70.870115.720
mainstream (not arcane)70.712927.028
pop (not indie)70.714426.719
devout (not heathen)70.730925.416
picky (not always down)70.737923.620
fast (not slow)70.575519.018
go-getter (not slugabed)70.5107825.023
washed (not muddy)70.457725.624
feisty (not gracious)70.469424.225
high IQ (not low IQ)70.4115222.632
pointed (not random)70.385824.030
overspender (not penny-pincher)70.231123.315
gatherer (not hunter)70.138427.521
vibrant (not geriatric)70.071323.515
precise (not vague)69.864229.421
mad (not glad)69.651821.627
🤐 (not 😜)69.642927.048
playful (not shy)69.583618.231
stick-in-the-mud (not adventurous)69.528120.512
queen (not princess)69.565327.715
average (not deviant)69.415623.618
😭 (not 😀)69.426523.244
disarming (not creepy)69.279216.230
romantic (not dispassionate)69.275922.623
intellectual (not physical)69.274120.523
patriotic (not unpatriotic)69.263316.319
rational (not whimsical)69.157425.623
decorative (not utilitarian)69.020832.324
entitled (not grateful)68.951125.243
sensible (not ludicrous)68.857727.527
anxious (not calm)68.856424.535
empath (not psychopath)68.874221.144
tactful (not indiscreet)68.655233.925
authoritarian (not democratic)68.640321.420
conventional (not creative)68.533925.923
sorrowful (not cheery)68.460919.421
bossy (not meek)68.491025.022
orderly (not chaotic)68.259728.428
vain (not demure)68.248526.434
high standards (not desperate)68.162128.648
real (not philosophical)67.957330.418
hurried (not leisurely)67.940122.828
eloquent (not unpolished)67.973222.322
rhythmic (not stuttering)67.987228.527
crafty (not scholarly)67.764922.532
stoic (not hypochondriac)67.650228.525
reasonable (not deranged)67.563628.022
valedictorian (not drop out)67.589720.622
businesslike (not chivalrous)67.545624.815
practical (not imaginative)67.470030.025
normie (not freak)67.333225.943
strict (not lenient)67.258725.328
depressed (not bright)67.135823.621
love-focused (not money-focused)67.194224.222
guarded (not open)67.1100828.226
nurturing (not poisonous)67.174927.523
mighty (not puny)67.089722.429
suspicious (not trusting)66.963029.926
often crying (not never cries)66.937728.135
empirical (not theoretical)66.826226.624
direct (not roundabout)66.688228.825
sheriff (not outlaw)66.655728.829
fire (not water)66.474928.646
emotional (not logical)66.357723.641
enslaved (not emancipated)66.313328.031
pessimistic (not optimistic)66.345730.620
🎩 (not 🧢)66.365431.936
traumatized (not flourishing)66.377228.014
private (not gregarious)66.275223.824
pensive (not serene)66.284623.444
'right-brained' (not 'left-brained')66.12528.416
long-winded (not concise)66.030023.914
🌟 (not 💩)65.8114126.234
vanilla (not kinky)65.748724.228
close-minded (not open-minded)65.734522.622
not genocidal (not genocidal)65.6106829.117
straightforward (not cryptic)65.580929.931
ferocious (not pacifist)65.379822.725
prestigious (not disreputable)65.278529.824
loveable (not punchable)65.279128.828
reliable (not experimental)65.261926.423
factual (not poetic)64.962528.625
old (not young)64.749220.320
extrovert (not introvert)64.771527.224
spicy (not mild)64.782924.423
🚴 (not 🏋️‍♂️)64.699030.431
fortunate (not unlucky)64.638619.521
chic (not cheesy)64.447223.325
artistic (not scientific)64.357818.918
focused on the future (not focused on the present)64.333428.323
cool (not dorky)64.370328.417
chatty (not reserved)64.266427.220
🛌 (not 🧗)64.229126.937
😊 (not 🤣)64.078924.427
hoarder (not unprepared)63.969217.731
workaholic (not slacker)63.9127427.625
corporate (not freelance)63.944830.719
orange (not purple)63.840228.023
thick-skinned (not sensitive)63.561631.315
concrete (not abstract)63.466624.818
ranged (not melee)63.440726.325
bored (not interested)63.412928.037
communal (not individualist)63.328828.022
low-tech (not high-tech)63.259528.628
driven (not unambitious)63.1156126.617
💃 (not 🧕)63.091329.735
vintage (not trendy)63.0104928.932
prideful (not envious)63.0115128.420
charismatic (not uninspiring)62.9126328.824
introspective (not not introspective)62.989127.727
clean (not perverted)62.999529.837
lost (not enlightened)62.860320.125
motivated (not unmotivated)62.8159731.026
arrogant (not humble)62.777924.719
🥴 (not 🥳)62.761625.936
hard-work (not natural-talent)62.682728.352
highbrow (not lowbrow)62.480725.218
generalist (not specialist)62.418626.715
giving (not receiving)62.389829.921
competitive (not cooperative)62.292224.719
obedient (not rebellious)62.246825.419
heroic (not villainous)62.1120720.824
codependent (not independent)62.139727.527
chortling (not giggling)62.185128.225
alpha (not beta)62.097728.721
obsessed (not aloof)61.889426.927
knowledgeable (not ignorant)61.8116424.930
hard (not soft)61.778922.524
consistent (not variable)61.580328.017
insecure (not confident)61.433032.425
historical (not modern)61.358024.512
well behaved (not mischievous)61.157528.230
tame (not wild)61.149328.730
🧠 (not 💪)61.1113030.136
master (not apprentice)60.9103029.727
armoured (not vulnerable)60.894524.826
hypocritical (not equitable)60.855527.232
winter (not summer)60.864231.113
efficient (not overprepared)60.6105926.319
presidential (not folksy)60.678127.618
classical (not avant-garde)60.577529.216
🧐 (not 😎)60.559432.134
cocky (not timid)60.4119324.216
luddite (not technophile)60.258626.919
regular (not zany)60.246834.826
pack rat (not minimalist)60.248324.416
🤖 (not 👻)60.256127.638
🐮 (not 🐷)60.272222.631
instinctual (not reasoned)60.183632.613
indulgent (not sober)60.077930.529
formal (not intimate)60.067324.520
interesting (not tiresome)59.9121728.331
sane (not crazy)59.967025.421
western (not eastern)59.9101741.916
👨‍⚕️ (not 👨‍🔧)59.976627.236
contrarian (not yes-man)59.992930.215
literal (not metaphorical)59.891130.724
hard (not soft)59.884823.625
low self esteem (not narcissistic)59.847122.423
flower child (not goth)59.898627.420
rigid (not flexible)59.778130.826
first-mate (not captain)59.775529.820
resolute (not wavering)59.7115035.022
generous (not stingy)59.798726.132
nonpolitical (not political)59.651033.521
repetitive (not varied)59.676524.632
cautious (not impulsive)59.573228.628
gloomy (not sunny)59.585123.025
jealous (not compersive)59.367326.826
resigned (not resistant)59.311629.225
badass (not weakass)59.3129431.335
cannibal (not vegan)59.266933.521
realistic (not fantastical)59.189331.424
genius (not dunce)59.0117122.523
French (not Russian)58.989932.821
libertarian (not socialist)58.862533.429
monastic (not hedonist)58.842432.819
ivory-tower (not blue-collar)58.769134.827
complicated (not simple)58.7114229.222
kind (not cruel)58.6130618.124
head@clouds (not down2earth)58.566533.722
👩‍🎤 (not 👩‍🔬)58.282425.938
worldly (not innocent)58.1120625.034
quarrelsome (not warm)58.186427.220
🧙 (not 👨‍🚀)57.876927.234
prudish (not flirtatious)57.764924.611
dramatic (not no-nonsense)57.684030.418
😇 (not 😈)57.685629.843
jealous (not opinionated)57.623335.516
Coke (not Pepsi)57.556636.930
methodical (not astonishing)57.498734.620
main character (not side character)57.483033.825
self-destructive (not self-improving)57.381928.429
claustrophobic (not spelunker)57.341130.117
common sense (not analysis)57.348630.421
💔 (not 💝)57.266931.338
debased (not pure)57.173924.725
assertive (not passive)57.1130423.921
machiavellian (not transparent)57.075131.123
🐿 (not 🦇)56.994428.031
English (not German)56.9162333.621
humorless (not funny)56.659729.132
wise (not foolish)56.597726.133
deep (not epic)56.467822.536
lustful (not chaste)56.393125.821
linear (not circular)56.372729.123
bashful (not exhibitionist)56.246926.432
extreme (not moderate)56.1112231.125
demonic (not angelic)56.068519.726
self-conscious (not self-assured)56.042324.123
uncreative (not open to new experinces)55.937025.932
cosmopolitan (not provincial)55.985930.723
paranoid (not naive)55.8106222.614
expressive (not stoic)55.7104728.724
pain-avoidant (not masochistic)55.773935.924
mundane (not extraordinary)55.642229.619
resourceful (not helpless)55.4158728.330
politically correct (not edgy)55.370427.328
subjective (not objective)55.374630.019
🙅‍♂️ (not 🙋‍♂️)55.264932.125
🎃 (not 💀)55.278028.032
street-smart (not sheltered)55.1116232.030
monochrome (not multicolored)55.183829.418
metrosexual (not macho)55.1108931.320
stuck-in-the-past (not forward-thinking)55.167329.740
plastic (not wooden)55.132829.424
fixable (not unfixable)54.9110729.129
😬 (not 😏)54.864528.635
genuine (not sarcastic)54.693126.328
twitchy (not still)54.6109428.729
🤡 (not 👽)54.567825.328
sage (not whippersnapper)54.578430.721
distant (not touchy-feely)54.4100322.824
thinker (not doer)54.351029.435
patient (not impatient)54.262428.121
spiritual (not skeptical)54.044033.320
moody (not stable)54.0123731.920
vengeful (not forgiving)53.989525.423
realistic (not ambitious)53.961633.638
insider (not outsider)53.875126.413
subdued (not exuberant)53.867326.825
white knight (not bad boy)53.8110130.327
serious (not bold)53.778328.025
boy/girl-next-door (not celebrity)53.7116531.818
reactive (not proactive)53.796036.115
🥰 (not 🙃)53.696830.735
attentive (not interrupting)53.695729.743
everyman (not chosen one)53.674626.625
flamboyant (not modest)53.583226.631
submissive (not dominant)53.559925.224
dry (not moist)53.587423.026
🥶 (not 🥵)53.369727.847
musical (not off-key)53.273632.024
charming (not trusting)53.197933.421
🦒 (not 🐐)53.142129.733
complimentary (not insulting)53.0103326.516
short (not tall)52.974523.239
alert (not oblivious)52.9128331.430
feminist (not sexist)52.9132828.628
fighter (not lover)52.993124.144
realist (not idealist)52.697927.536
apathetic (not curious)52.538524.524
thin (not thick)52.5116228.835
exaggerating (not factual)52.494929.536
stubborn (not accommodating)52.4148430.534
rough (not smooth)52.390824.524
bitter (not sweet)52.192425.020
racist (not egalitarian)52.130116.129
🐴 (not 🦄)52.1111132.540
oxymoron (not tautology)52.0123926.410
cunning (not honorable)51.975626.320
decisive (not hesitant)51.9138731.316
warm (not cold)51.9107125.421
🐘 (not 🐀)51.894931.424
underachiever (not overachiever)51.836527.855
nerd (not jock)51.6114122.221
cringeworthy (not inspiring)51.575029.532
earth (not air)51.5133134.340
cynical (not gullible)51.5126532.116
brave (not careful)51.4130634.625
bookish (not sporty)51.3121621.132
ironic (not profound)51.3100028.340
cultured (not rustic)51.3125524.623
📈 (not 📉)51.2143933.031
gossiping (not confidential)51.162036.523
wholesome (not salacious)51.1114123.920
sheeple (not conspiracist)51.053929.523
🏌 (not 🤺)51.043733.335
cat person (not dog person)51.097333.812
reassuring (not fearmongering)50.9120327.618
one-faced (not two-faced)50.8132832.351
shallow (not deep)50.763030.521
altruistic (not selfish)50.6114226.221
🤫 (not 🤔)50.572331.533

The lowest rating for any description in the table is 50.0 despite a 1 to 100 scale being used. This is because descriptions that had values lower than the midpoint were reversed. For example, a score of 1/100 for "hot (not cold)" is equivalent to a score of 100/100 for "cold (not hot)". This was done so that all the traits that are most distinctive for a character are at the top of the table.

Similar characters

The similarity between two characters can be calculated by taking the correlation between the lists of their traits. This produces a value from +1 to -1. With +1 implying that every trait one character is high on the other one is high on too, to an equal degree. And, -1 implying that if a character is high on specific trait, the other one is low on it. The 10 most and least similar characters to Carmela Soprano based on their crowd-sourced profiles are listed below with the correlation in parenthesis.

Most similar Least similar
  1. Rose Weissman (0.71)
  2. Mamá Imelda (0.702)
  3. Mellie Grant (0.677)
  4. Dr. Lisa Cuddy (0.677)
  5. Claire Standish (0.674)
  6. Catelyn Stark (0.673)
  7. Monica Geller (0.67)
  8. Lucilla (0.667)
  9. Bree Van de Kamp (0.666)
  10. Maggie Hart (0.662)
  1. Jake Harper (-0.432)
  2. Barney Gumble (-0.424)
  3. Patrick Star (-0.396)
  4. Kevin Malone (-0.386)
  5. Ed (-0.385)
  6. Nelson Bighetti (-0.378)
  7. Luke Dunphy (-0.371)
  8. Jason Mendoza (-0.355)
  9. Meredith Palmer (-0.344)
  10. Oscar Bluth (-0.342)

Personality types

Users who took the quiz were asked to self-identify their Myers-Briggs and Enneagram types. We can look at the average match scores of these different groups of users with Carmela Soprano to see what personality types people who describe themselves in ways similar to the way Carmela Soprano is described identify as.

Myers-Briggs Self-type Average match score with character Number of users


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