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Monica Geller Descriptive Personality Statistics

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Monica Geller is a character from Friends.

This page summarizes crowd sourced ratings of their personality collected from users of the Statistical "Which Character" Personality Quiz. This website has recruited more than 3 million volunteers to rate characters on descriptive adjectives and other properties, which can be aggregated to create profiles that users can be matched to as part of a personality test. For more information about how the ratings were collected and how they are used, see the documentation.

Aggregated ratings for 400 descriptions

The table shows the average rating the character received for each descriptive item on a 1 to 100 scale and what that character's rank for the description is among all 2,000 characters in the database. It also shows the standard deviation of the ratings and how many different individuals submitted a rating for that description.

ItemAverage ratingRankRating standard deviationNumber of raters
neat (not messy)95.7911.71079
self-disciplined (not disorganized)95.22711.21185
diligent (not lazy)93.98710.41166
on-time (not tardy)93.83414.3236
competitive (not cooperative)93.65613.41168
scheduled (not spontaneous)93.42314.51173
OCD (not ADHD)92.9215.0174
orderly (not chaotic)92.21417.31196
motivated (not unmotivated)92.217012.1129
bossy (not meek)92.17511.11183
persistent (not quitter)92.120112.3528
overachiever (not underachiever)91.85816.1196
washed (not muddy)91.01115.7130
beautiful (not ugly)90.821512.8407
workaholic (not slacker)90.813013.7362
driven (not unambitious)90.517314.21227
sheriff (not outlaw)90.32814.31129
precise (not vague)90.12215.21025
good-cook (not bad-cook)90.01520.4181
manicured (not scruffy)89.416515.11501
strict (not lenient)89.36115.21259
tense (not relaxed)89.011114.41156
demanding (not unchallenging)89.014016.5184
valedictorian (not drop out)88.914816.3583
go-getter (not slugabed)88.39814.8473
competent (not incompetent)88.125814.81208
obsessed (not aloof)88.14416.61167
rigid (not flexible)87.85216.41172
active (not slothful)87.818214.01206
tight (not loose)87.45816.2152
pointed (not random)87.211216.1173
fresh (not stinky)87.110918.3811
dominant (not submissive)86.427117.81285
anxious (not calm)86.37714.31136
clean (not perverted)86.315720.3188
opinionated (not neutral)86.332716.7215
picky (not always down)85.94014.9138
hurried (not leisurely)85.41816.91555
attractive (not repulsive)85.333116.41182
devoted (not unfaithful)85.243116.0125
resourceful (not helpless)85.037317.7393
deliberate (not spontaneous)84.914420.61175
works hard (not plays hard)84.716418.01142
practical (not imaginative)84.710018.61196
frenzied (not sleepy)84.58214.8154
straight (not queer)84.324720.4626
assertive (not passive)84.227319.71239
fast-talking (not slow-talking)84.113115.5153
methodical (not astonishing)83.85821.71194
hoarder (not unprepared)83.81617.11291
consistent (not variable)83.45819.5152
involved (not remote)83.310918.11036
official (not backdoor)83.33717.61419
captain (not first-mate)83.325623.71463
refined (not rugged)82.714818.11285
stubborn (not accommodating)82.738320.0250
civilized (not barbaric)82.632420.11162
alpha (not beta)82.336722.21135
loyal (not traitorous)82.265716.91115
treasure (not trash)82.044718.2572
fast (not slow)81.924017.61170
perceptive (not unobservant)81.755920.2148
studious (not goof-off)81.442221.7574
feminist (not sexist)81.443018.0723
high standards (not desperate)81.120521.5251
impatient (not patient)81.129220.3611
preppy (not punk rock)81.122519.8151
paranoid (not naive)80.78718.5123
important (not irrelevant)80.761718.3905
master (not apprentice)80.641719.2699
healthy (not sickly)80.432119.01214
morning lark (not night owl)80.45822.11025
alert (not oblivious)80.435022.3517
tattle-tale (not f***-the-police)80.08423.1145
reliable (not experimental)79.716523.5138
loud (not quiet)79.633719.91157
high IQ (not low IQ)79.570715.11124
🌟 (not 💩)79.456620.4526
privileged (not oppressed)79.240721.1135
human (not animalistic)79.241920.71149
twitchy (not still)79.223021.8231
thin (not thick)78.814122.0992
repetitive (not varied)78.77120.8601
rational (not whimsical)78.327523.71148
egalitarian (not racist)78.382717.8536
prestigious (not disreputable)78.226916.61247
knowledgeable (not ignorant)78.253821.3184
hard-work (not natural-talent)78.116722.0204
gendered (not androgynous)78.172824.2591
romantic (not dispassionate)77.938821.1188
eloquent (not unpolished)77.938719.01061
🐩 (not 🐒)77.922123.0506
permanent (not transient)77.89620.2579
intense (not lighthearted)77.848525.9158
well behaved (not mischievous)77.816323.41232
stick-in-the-mud (not adventurous)77.713121.21158
obedient (not rebellious)77.712725.41177
authoritarian (not democratic)77.623525.21112
city-slicker (not country-bumpkin)77.349722.7536
traditional (not unorthodox)77.215121.8388
tasteful (not lewd)77.026118.31213
presidential (not folksy)76.826320.9135
concrete (not abstract)76.718925.0516
offended (not chill)76.629021.3130
builder (not explorer)76.68520.71442
unambiguous (not mysterious)76.616619.81476
chatty (not reserved)76.439221.21222
nerd (not jock)76.348623.41156
stylish (not slovenly)76.345320.21113
flower child (not goth)76.341423.3118
feminine (not masculine)76.239622.01297
businesslike (not chivalrous)76.225523.0189
literal (not metaphorical)76.115122.11164
pro (not noob)76.170123.1519
direct (not roundabout)76.048324.51159
legit (not scrub)76.054722.1756
opinionated (not jealous)75.746425.5142
believable (not poorly-written)75.664521.8163
real (not philosophical)75.623720.51048
factual (not poetic)75.627023.9126
proper (not scandalous)75.428821.61267
sexual (not asexual)75.456920.7199
domestic (not industrial)75.310423.0332
white knight (not bad boy)75.341121.4136
triggered (not trolling)75.216622.8141
resolute (not wavering)75.242224.4504
coordinated (not clumsy)75.165928.11198
badass (not weakass)75.081524.7158
judgemental (not accepting)74.637622.61019
cautious (not impulsive)74.527227.31281
queen (not princess)74.548629.2134
hypochondriac (not stoic)74.59824.8101
mature (not juvenile)74.445324.0399
pretentious (not unassuming)74.236621.4566
sturdy (not flimsy)74.155323.4152
straightforward (not cryptic)74.036225.31143
extreme (not moderate)73.958826.51188
nurturing (not poisonous)73.953322.3569
reasoned (not instinctual)73.815526.91131
giving (not receiving)73.844423.8121
urban (not rural)73.853526.5852
serious (not playful)73.757820.81251
📈 (not 📉)73.724125.8565
cultured (not rustic)73.637523.3129
highbrow (not lowbrow)73.632419.21052
decisive (not hesitant)73.465027.71094
careful (not brave)73.311525.31185
👟 (not 🥾)73.225527.8575
💝 (not 💔)73.129425.3804
emotional (not unemotional)72.769224.4116
politically correct (not edgy)72.521922.91109
non-gamer (not gamer)72.546331.8161
protagonist (not antagonist)72.378526.6139
interested (not bored)72.357624.5170
complicated (not simple)72.263924.61137
basic (not hipster)72.038422.81166
enlightened (not lost)72.022822.9168
focused on the future (not focused on the present)71.915524.21185
bold (not shy)71.8114122.21256
statist (not anarchist)71.724326.3709
resistant (not resigned)71.659724.51132
🐿 (not 🦇)71.643226.6471
ferocious (not pacifist)71.361324.71180
classical (not avant-garde)71.333124.5331
skeptical (not spiritual)71.271522.31125
bright (not depressed)71.230520.81102
feisty (not gracious)71.267223.21089
👩‍🔬 (not 👩‍🎤)71.135525.9561
specialist (not generalist)71.133927.8330
expressive (not stoic)71.052724.31096
English (not German)71.092629.3130
sensible (not ludicrous)70.950227.31120
claustrophobic (not spelunker)70.99526.6141
pronatalist (not child free)70.816828.41016
🤖 (not 👻)70.822525.6458
linear (not circular)70.812727.7125
French (not Russian)70.733427.6132
biased (not impartial)70.655523.61107
boy/girl-next-door (not celebrity)70.465127.4138
independent (not codependent)70.467829.81538
hard (not soft)70.352923.01124
realistic (not fantastical)70.350228.8180
cheery (not sorrowful)70.231320.71219
mighty (not puny)70.176223.61095
penny-pincher (not overspender)70.131925.7799
Italian (not Swedish)70.132723.7152
happy (not sad)70.123519.31172
🚴 (not 🏋️‍♂️)69.877729.0489
wise (not foolish)69.651720.91234
main character (not side character)69.559027.272
down2earth (not head@clouds)69.347227.91090
genius (not dunce)69.278118.11309
dorky (not cool)69.236224.4516
social (not reclusive)69.251024.4870
🧠 (not 💪)69.087027.6573
sunny (not gloomy)69.043623.8139
pensive (not serene)69.066225.3142
expressive (not monotone)68.966628.1147
kind (not cruel)68.898622.11217
soulful (not soulless)68.8102124.2364
rock (not rap)68.8107824.2159
charismatic (not uninspiring)68.799924.3988
tailor (not blacksmith)68.759127.4128
patriotic (not unpatriotic)68.666222.0490
fire (not water)68.170031.5156
serious (not bold)67.932526.31186
hard (not soft)67.958625.0407
🧗 (not 🛌)67.973230.9898
🎃 (not 💀)67.934028.2163
overprepared (not efficient)67.87834.9132
🧐 (not 😎)67.738728.3599
frank (not sugarcoated)67.795426.9128
predictable (not quirky)67.628027.3120
tame (not wild)67.434025.61363
wooden (not plastic)67.472126.0173
intellectual (not physical)67.381025.41094
jealous (not compersive)67.344424.51036
off-key (not musical)67.338026.0123
conventional (not creative)67.237828.41205
tactful (not indiscreet)67.161627.6515
rhythmic (not stuttering)67.091126.9142
proactive (not reactive)67.013630.1120
disarming (not creepy)66.990222.9631
neurotypical (not autistic)66.793228.41115
earth (not air)66.660430.9163
close-minded (not open-minded)66.633125.21455
dramatic (not comedic)66.389824.2213
not genocidal (not genocidal)66.3104330.5107
guarded (not open)66.2103424.21091
arrogant (not humble)65.869923.71178
extrovert (not introvert)65.569026.51169
sheltered (not street-smart)65.535926.81269
prideful (not envious)65.499527.8230
one-faced (not two-faced)65.492927.7199
rich (not poor)65.377118.71169
realist (not idealist)65.351029.9417
curious (not apathetic)65.189824.91140
armoured (not vulnerable)65.080425.51167
love-focused (not money-focused)64.8101923.7123
fortunate (not unlucky)64.738124.21223
playful (not shy)64.797422.61129
👨‍⚕️ (not 👨‍🔧)64.760629.0552
heroic (not villainous)64.6113621.71133
wholesome (not salacious)64.675025.7478
😊 (not 🤣)64.676129.3575
exuberant (not subdued)64.568427.6125
corporate (not freelance)64.443831.3140
joyful (not miserable)64.241722.6511
cocky (not timid)64.1107425.9135
devout (not heathen)64.057723.3986
emancipated (not enslaved)64.090528.21050
cosmopolitan (not provincial)63.952127.91070
🤺 (not 🏌)63.9105232.0537
chosen one (not everyman)63.961928.5135
introspective (not not introspective)63.884826.9761
formal (not intimate)63.856726.4824
😇 (not 😈)63.867326.9556
crazy (not sane)63.561925.2530
young (not old)63.498523.81097
bourgeoisie (not proletariat)63.456126.21011
insider (not outsider)63.334326.6977
modern (not historical)63.270626.4937
pure (not debased)63.169422.81098
💃 (not 🧕)63.191028.4861
winter (not summer)63.158031.0116
🤔 (not 🤫)63.059130.6502
vibrant (not geriatric)62.999527.1144
mainstream (not arcane)62.833327.21038
existentialist (not nihilist)62.669226.9273
🐮 (not 🐷)62.654328.4705
average (not deviant)62.532826.0938
gossiping (not confidential)62.539927.51607
moody (not stable)62.496426.41157
sensitive (not thick-skinned)62.454927.31141
🥰 (not 🙃)62.064830.4803
empirical (not theoretical)61.650431.41071
cynical (not gullible)61.694427.1115
😀 (not 😭)61.157825.9565
🙋‍♂️ (not 🙅‍♂️)61.174035.3547
frugal (not lavish)60.875626.61082
bookish (not sporty)60.6100529.41161
freak (not normie)60.577126.0204
short (not tall)60.454921.11293
loveable (not punchable)60.498027.5160
analysis (not common sense)60.474134.4120
respectful (not rude)60.295024.61225
self-improving (not self-destructive)60.058929.3165
dry (not moist)59.960428.4159
sober (not indulgent)59.858927.71185
👨‍🚀 (not 🧙)59.759530.3740
ambitious (not realistic)59.593233.1195
metrosexual (not macho)59.493527.3124
interrupting (not attentive)59.366031.6157
doer (not thinker)59.3101133.8222
ivory-tower (not blue-collar)59.267027.3992
vanilla (not kinky)59.171226.91029
quarrelsome (not warm)59.183326.71156
🎩 (not 🧢)59.182731.3465
reasonable (not deranged)59.091229.0541
pack rat (not minimalist)58.953132.4538
contrarian (not yes-man)58.997229.9128
honorable (not cunning)58.894828.11218
exaggerating (not factual)58.875732.4183
chic (not cheesy)58.765528.4133
🐴 (not 🦄)58.687131.7557
Coke (not Pepsi)58.551233.5184
deep (not shallow)58.4105524.6600
vintage (not trendy)58.4121429.6166
weird (not normal)58.396124.91274
vain (not demure)58.376824.31110
angelic (not demonic)58.096123.01088
objective (not subjective)57.952431.3325
monochrome (not multicolored)57.973131.0316
😬 (not 😏)57.952729.7561
vegan (not cannibal)57.984230.7142
🎨 (not 🏀)57.9105033.2184
🥵 (not 🥶)57.486430.4180
exhibitionist (not bashful)57.3102328.2158
mathematical (not literary)57.253731.01050
individualist (not communal)57.299231.3379
🐘 (not 🐀)57.171031.6786
modest (not flamboyant)57.091528.51213
vengeful (not forgiving)57.081727.31178
funny (not humorless)57.099724.91150
uncreative (not open to new experinces)56.934229.11124
🤑 (not 🤠)56.760628.6510
logical (not emotional)56.671629.11208
👽 (not 🤡)56.487427.5462
narcissistic (not low self esteem)56.4100030.1200
entitled (not grateful)56.481728.6172
transparent (not machiavellian)56.379330.3153
lustful (not chaste)56.293324.81122
libertarian (not socialist)56.081627.3875
Greek (not Roman)55.950831.0126
concise (not long-winded)55.780932.3122
touchy-feely (not distant)55.671027.8121
eastern (not western)55.523734.1716
forward-thinking (not stuck-in-the-past)55.493127.2189
cat person (not dog person)55.483135.5139
political (not nonpolitical)55.398829.5958
fixable (not unfixable)55.1109930.7156
dramatic (not no-nonsense)55.093932.3669
😜 (not 🤐)55.081829.6495
centrist (not radical)54.965531.0125
crafty (not scholarly)54.4109330.51521
decorative (not utilitarian)54.456032.7383
🦒 (not 🐐)54.336030.5719
self-conscious (not self-assured)54.247831.61140
warm (not cold)54.2101125.51166
awkward (not suspicious)54.159227.41068
ranged (not melee)54.1102232.4101
smooth (not rough)53.889328.41064
sweet (not bitter)53.794223.91144
zany (not regular)53.7103429.2499
blissful (not haunted)53.751727.2187
trusting (not charming)53.578927.01069
extraordinary (not mundane)53.4135226.81122
selfish (not altruistic)53.378325.81175
reassuring (not fearmongering)53.3112231.0141
tautology (not oxymoron)53.246527.677
mad (not glad)53.1104725.6573
generous (not stingy)53.1119628.7217
thrifty (not extravagant)53.196330.9164
pop (not indie)53.154529.5155
worldly (not innocent)53.0134425.41193
inspiring (not cringeworthy)53.0113626.7354
theist (not atheist)52.868128.6305
complimentary (not insulting)52.8104126.3357
liberal (not conservative)52.8122830.2545
angry (not good-humored)52.781724.11204
monastic (not hedonist)52.771728.2339
low-tech (not high-tech)52.493525.51052
awkward (not charming)52.366126.11227
orange (not purple)52.391932.6987
hypocritical (not equitable)52.383227.5418
luddite (not technophile)52.296523.8877
sage (not whippersnapper)52.288328.2129
psychopath (not empath)52.268428.4182
tiresome (not interesting)52.040427.71137
confident (not insecure)51.9135928.31193
flirtatious (not prudish)51.9106727.2151
scientific (not artistic)51.8100329.81213
masochistic (not pain-avoidant)51.894830.8160
gatherer (not hunter)51.885933.6145
private (not gregarious)51.6125127.31116
profound (not ironic)51.690428.5172
deep (not epic)51.593329.8149
trusting (not suspicious)51.385429.81181
flourishing (not traumatized)51.358229.2152
sarcastic (not genuine)51.291827.71197
sheeple (not conspiracist)51.253027.8876
work-first (not family-first)51.295229.61577
fighter (not lover)51.296628.4188
often crying (not never cries)51.081826.1119
open-book (not secretive)50.968127.5178
'left-brained' (not 'right-brained')50.2110534.5967
mild (not spicy)50.372428.61209
🥳 (not 🥴)50.382829.2521
pessimistic (not optimistic)50.499527.41130
chortling (not giggling)50.5132628.7127
jaded (not innocent)50.5137026.5123

The lowest rating for any description in the table is 50.0 despite a 1 to 100 scale being used. This is because descriptions that had values lower than the midpoint were reversed. For example, a score of 1/100 for "hot (not cold)" is equivalent to a score of 100/100 for "cold (not hot)". This was done so that all the traits that are most distinctive for a character are at the top of the table.

Similar characters

The similarity between two characters can be calculated by taking the correlation between the lists of their traits. This produces a value from +1 to -1. With +1 implying that every trait one character is high on the other one is high on too, to an equal degree. And, -1 implying that if a character is high on specific trait, the other one is low on it. The 10 most and least similar characters to Monica Geller based on their crowd-sourced profiles are listed below with the correlation in parenthesis.

Most similar Least similar
  1. Amy Santiago (0.876)
  2. Molly Davidson (0.83)
  3. Claire Dunphy (0.829)
  4. Amy Sosa (0.829)
  5. Randall Pearson (0.824)
  6. Dr. Lisa Cuddy (0.82)
  7. Sally Albright (0.809)
  8. Bernadette Rostenkowski (0.803)
  9. Claire Dearing (0.794)
  10. Margaret 'Hot Lips' Houlihan (0.783)
  1. Barney Gumble (-0.645)
  2. Jake Harper (-0.571)
  3. Oscar Bluth (-0.515)
  4. Kevin Malone (-0.487)
  5. Nelson Bighetti (-0.477)
  6. Ed (-0.471)
  7. A.J. Soprano (-0.466)
  8. Kermit (-0.46)
  9. Meredith Palmer (-0.448)
  10. Frank Gallagher (-0.435)

Personality types

Users who took the quiz were asked to self-identify their Myers-Briggs and Enneagram types. We can look at the average match scores of these different groups of users with Monica Geller to see what personality types people who describe themselves in ways similar to the way Monica Geller is described identify as.

Myers-Briggs Self-type Average match score with character Number of users


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