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Lady Mary Crawley Descriptive Personality Statistics

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Lady Mary Crawley is a character from Downton Abbey.

This page summarizes crowd sourced ratings of their personality collected from users of the Statistical "Which Character" Personality Quiz. This website has recruited more than 3 million volunteers to rate characters on descriptive adjectives and other properties, which can be aggregated to create profiles that users can be matched to as part of a personality test. For more information about how the ratings were collected and how they are used, see the documentation.

Aggregated ratings for 400 descriptions

The table shows the average rating the character received for each descriptive item on a 1 to 100 scale and what that character's rank for the description is among all 2,000 characters in the database. It also shows the standard deviation of the ratings and how many different individuals submitted a rating for that description.

ItemAverage ratingRankRating standard deviationNumber of raters
rich (not poor)96.3319.1285
main character (not side character)95.1626.818
cultured (not rustic)94.349.622
manicured (not scruffy)93.44713.2296
stylish (not slovenly)93.12810.9303
highbrow (not lowbrow)91.7312.3287
🎩 (not 🧢)91.63810.027
eloquent (not unpolished)91.13512.8268
opinionated (not neutral)90.613813.552
bossy (not meek)90.412412.0307
ivory-tower (not blue-collar)90.12217.9310
alpha (not beta)89.812416.6251
🐩 (not 🐒)89.72910.324
pointed (not random)89.06910.326
refined (not rugged)88.72715.6332
cocky (not timid)88.717611.418
driven (not unambitious)88.627615.3268
privileged (not oppressed)88.613920.130
assertive (not passive)88.510913.1235
dominant (not submissive)87.822515.0308
coordinated (not clumsy)87.618913.5327
bold (not shy)87.641014.5273
celebrity (not boy/girl-next-door)87.45815.930
important (not irrelevant)87.227613.235
complicated (not simple)87.110815.7265
presidential (not folksy)87.1409.923
beautiful (not ugly)87.043414.9129
frank (not sugarcoated)86.814114.421
stubborn (not accommodating)86.722518.251
chic (not cheesy)86.7219.522
extravagant (not thrifty)86.311119.241
attractive (not repulsive)86.227616.5282
persistent (not quitter)86.263617.624
bourgeoisie (not proletariat)86.13922.9253
competitive (not cooperative)86.025916.8298
high standards (not desperate)85.610121.455
high IQ (not low IQ)85.443212.0256
go-getter (not slugabed)85.223613.631
legit (not scrub)85.212310.026
dramatic (not comedic)84.813620.925
civilized (not barbaric)84.524719.0321
healthy (not sickly)84.516417.0320
pretentious (not unassuming)84.512719.925
intense (not lighthearted)84.526717.833
captain (not first-mate)84.323922.5233
straight (not queer)83.428021.3150
demanding (not unchallenging)83.338724.457
mighty (not puny)83.224017.5289
tailor (not blacksmith)83.06019.332
narcissistic (not low self esteem)82.621713.331
English (not German)82.319428.927
cynical (not gullible)82.321811.319
cool (not dorky)82.115316.431
guarded (not open)82.136217.8328
armoured (not vulnerable)82.017818.5244
distant (not touchy-feely)81.915113.914
direct (not roundabout)81.925622.0295
overachiever (not underachiever)81.944515.632
competent (not incompetent)81.855419.0252
badass (not weakass)81.854023.932
treasure (not trash)81.746815.738
skeptical (not spiritual)81.625016.3323
master (not apprentice)81.638419.6142
pro (not noob)81.547319.328
machiavellian (not transparent)81.512115.822
lavish (not frugal)81.214719.8309
valedictorian (not drop out)81.141217.826
fresh (not stinky)81.135821.942
cosmopolitan (not provincial)81.08822.9289
washed (not muddy)80.916621.214
arrogant (not humble)80.831918.2294
perceptive (not unobservant)80.663021.641
businesslike (not chivalrous)80.616520.658
tense (not relaxed)80.343716.7318
chosen one (not everyman)80.39819.032
entitled (not grateful)80.227015.029
thin (not thick)80.110021.0165
judgemental (not accepting)80.025821.1193
charming (not awkward)79.729221.5302
diligent (not lazy)79.695718.1307
neurotypical (not autistic)79.018021.8313
factual (not poetic)78.917412.317
OCD (not ADHD)78.920319.529
rhythmic (not stuttering)78.835120.227
ferocious (not pacifist)78.637817.1291
hard (not soft)78.627920.0115
suspicious (not awkward)78.628517.6267
👨‍⚕️ (not 👨‍🔧)78.420018.022
picky (not always down)78.416824.224
fire (not water)78.338125.939
self-disciplined (not disorganized)78.265721.3288
active (not slothful)78.172620.4237
resourceful (not helpless)78.075722.4126
secretive (not open-book)78.041221.026
bad-cook (not good-cook)78.012122.323
independent (not codependent)77.842526.2279
hard (not soft)77.731417.0290
confident (not insecure)77.549323.3282
biased (not impartial)77.526219.4283
patriotic (not unpatriotic)77.131720.832
🤑 (not 🤠)77.120325.436
quarrelsome (not warm)77.034918.3315
offended (not chill)76.928019.626
haunted (not blissful)76.941317.640
alert (not oblivious)76.850124.627
unemotional (not emotional)76.88121.515
opinionated (not jealous)76.839828.528
jaded (not innocent)76.549319.926
charming (not trusting)76.421520.1286
vain (not demure)76.426720.3274
believable (not poorly-written)76.458416.328
neat (not messy)76.348123.8189
self-assured (not self-conscious)76.336124.4260
winter (not summer)76.223727.421
spicy (not mild)76.145021.9305
tasteful (not lewd)76.030021.6293
worldly (not innocent)76.055419.4337
tall (not short)76.032816.4323
prideful (not envious)76.033328.241
resistant (not resigned)75.934523.0326
intellectual (not physical)75.951621.0326
🧠 (not 💪)75.861522.827
practical (not imaginative)75.739722.0259
preppy (not punk rock)75.741528.938
frenzied (not sleepy)75.649517.928
🌟 (not 💩)75.475922.333
formal (not intimate)75.423522.929
motivated (not unmotivated)75.3118923.622
cold (not warm)75.128417.3254
insider (not outsider)75.07027.2196
receiving (not giving)75.026022.121
feminine (not masculine)74.842622.9290
rational (not whimsical)74.738525.3277
gendered (not androgynous)74.595626.0129
individualist (not communal)74.539223.3101
prestigious (not disreputable)74.439822.8250
fast (not slow)74.356621.5333
feisty (not gracious)74.355122.1299
suspicious (not trusting)74.341321.9319
statist (not anarchist)74.316622.430
urban (not rural)74.350525.238
precise (not vague)74.245523.0189
gloomy (not sunny)74.238614.726
charismatic (not uninspiring)74.174423.4305
dry (not moist)74.115222.633
feminist (not sexist)74.071422.329
overspender (not penny-pincher)73.922622.634
salacious (not wholesome)73.928721.721
serious (not playful)73.757821.9295
knowledgeable (not ignorant)73.671321.027
rebellious (not obedient)73.563422.2239
rock (not rap)73.573224.924
contrarian (not yes-man)73.434724.625
Coke (not Pepsi)73.44931.242
realistic (not fantastical)73.338822.331
impatient (not patient)73.353318.1108
moody (not stable)73.258322.9300
selfish (not altruistic)73.236121.5307
sarcastic (not genuine)73.235622.5303
realist (not idealist)73.026526.4130
never cries (not often crying)73.047623.423
genius (not dunce)72.861019.1322
young (not old)72.571719.9303
sturdy (not flimsy)72.561725.033
literal (not metaphorical)72.127022.7286
strict (not lenient)71.847422.7312
hunter (not gatherer)71.852426.431
sorrowful (not cheery)71.846717.5292
purple (not orange)71.722026.6251
devoted (not unfaithful)71.7116125.522
concise (not long-winded)71.619524.221
vibrant (not geriatric)71.366022.930
trendy (not vintage)71.115131.637
decisive (not hesitant)71.073926.4302
fighter (not lover)71.036723.739
rigid (not flexible)70.941423.8270
city-slicker (not country-bumpkin)70.975629.331
studious (not goof-off)70.983426.830
real (not philosophical)70.444525.2195
disarming (not creepy)70.472620.8119
🤖 (not 👻)70.323931.721
bitter (not sweet)70.242618.1271
protagonist (not antagonist)70.187629.320
extraordinary (not mundane)70.174325.6298
vengeful (not forgiving)70.050622.2321
thick-skinned (not sensitive)70.037724.9302
emancipated (not enslaved)69.960624.6285
tight (not loose)69.867326.134
on-time (not tardy)69.681030.853
😊 (not 🤣)69.655030.729
empirical (not theoretical)69.417525.9300
sexual (not asexual)69.476426.223
earth (not air)69.446226.828
flirtatious (not prudish)69.353023.728
western (not eastern)69.240835.528
authoritarian (not democratic)69.139326.1268
insulting (not complimentary)69.139827.3119
resolute (not wavering)68.970033.718
queen (not princess)68.768933.219
stoic (not expressive)68.531526.1291
focused on the future (not focused on the present)68.323125.6319
playful (not shy)68.386623.6261
official (not backdoor)68.331328.4280
🤺 (not 🏌)68.285930.827
😏 (not 😬)68.247227.523
lustful (not chaste)68.054122.1285
deliberate (not spontaneous)68.074227.7291
miserable (not joyful)67.862316.724
👽 (not 🤡)67.837621.124
💔 (not 💝)67.835031.631
French (not Russian)67.845231.521
brave (not careful)67.672026.1311
human (not animalistic)67.696326.1267
private (not gregarious)67.669526.3304
permanent (not transient)67.540028.5136
jealous (not compersive)67.344423.5243
workaholic (not slacker)67.0117525.2122
cat person (not dog person)66.945623.721
pessimistic (not optimistic)66.844022.8279
normie (not freak)66.834826.143
🚴 (not 🏋️‍♂️)66.791524.418
efficient (not overprepared)66.766826.230
wild (not tame)66.579424.6265
conspiracist (not sheeple)66.371823.7165
deviant (not average)66.371020.9185
sad (not happy)66.270518.8271
💀 (not 🎃)66.252826.330
angry (not good-humored)66.143021.1228
smooth (not rough)66.045533.0279
interrupting (not attentive)66.048128.535
orderly (not chaotic)65.865628.3286
modern (not historical)65.662527.8193
💃 (not 🧕)65.583028.346
corporate (not freelance)65.541628.534
🐮 (not 🐷)65.437224.927
normal (not weird)65.333224.7288
interesting (not tiresome)65.097927.2293
egalitarian (not racist)65.0139623.927
paranoid (not naive)65.065721.922
concrete (not abstract)64.960831.429
clean (not perverted)64.993225.038
logical (not emotional)64.847227.2321
🦒 (not 🐐)64.88023.826
scientific (not artistic)64.766624.2285
exhibitionist (not bashful)64.672323.428
metrosexual (not macho)64.570229.433
tactful (not indiscreet)64.373428.529
introspective (not not introspective)64.282725.229
doer (not thinker)64.181930.345
sensible (not ludicrous)64.076727.5301
extrovert (not introvert)63.974926.7341
scheduled (not spontaneous)63.581228.9295
night owl (not morning lark)63.578827.9172
loyal (not traitorous)63.4133624.8286
stingy (not generous)63.442422.043
mischievous (not well behaved)63.384725.6338
open to new experinces (not uncreative)63.3111226.8327
libertarian (not socialist)63.138025.3241
loud (not quiet)63.074125.5305
wooden (not plastic)63.096825.631
cunning (not honorable)62.949625.6352
political (not nonpolitical)62.968228.1294
mysterious (not unambiguous)62.955228.1297
epic (not deep)62.945829.033
stoic (not hypochondriac)62.573728.915
social (not reclusive)62.469326.038
👨‍🚀 (not 🧙)62.149529.238
reserved (not chatty)62.068126.9292
mad (not glad)62.076427.023
pack rat (not minimalist)62.042235.213
😭 (not 😀)62.052229.844
flamboyant (not modest)61.963628.3353
hypocritical (not equitable)61.951825.2149
bold (not serious)61.872430.1340
straightforward (not cryptic)61.7101033.1302
high-tech (not low-tech)61.664926.0250
non-gamer (not gamer)61.389636.938
extreme (not moderate)61.296626.7253
regular (not zany)61.242233.025
👟 (not 🥾)61.066226.819
musical (not off-key)61.046825.124
rude (not respectful)60.752723.7290
mature (not juvenile)60.786025.9116
still (not twitchy)60.541129.447
jock (not nerd)60.360726.4288
predictable (not quirky)60.253526.119
aloof (not obsessed)60.116030.5303
🦇 (not 🐿)60.056331.130
pensive (not serene)60.0126830.022
kinky (not vanilla)59.970327.8283
🐘 (not 🐀)59.961633.540
atheist (not theist)59.890927.4107
analysis (not common sense)59.876533.616
industrial (not domestic)59.764230.2119
masochistic (not pain-avoidant)59.659526.129
fast-talking (not slow-talking)59.697629.635
ambitious (not realistic)59.692829.441
reasoned (not instinctual)59.551429.8313
poisonous (not nurturing)59.555520.4123
demonic (not angelic)59.459219.3315
inspiring (not cringeworthy)59.490026.7128
🧐 (not 😎)59.364034.129
factual (not exaggerating)59.373329.238
two-faced (not one-faced)59.250330.356
proactive (not reactive)59.240027.322
😈 (not 😇)59.171623.227
circular (not linear)59.149728.624
involved (not remote)59.0128230.0262
ironic (not profound)59.063924.829
down2earth (not head@clouds)58.883232.0317
scandalous (not proper)58.879026.5238
sheltered (not street-smart)58.853427.6276
mainstream (not arcane)58.747628.6241
sporty (not bookish)58.760225.9251
🐴 (not 🦄)58.786832.230
sane (not crazy)58.571021.125
🙅‍♂️ (not 🙋‍♂️)58.453830.616
cannibal (not vegan)58.369229.928
🎨 (not 🏀)58.2104228.931
pronatalist (not child free)58.143127.9247
triggered (not trolling)58.1111930.229
methodical (not astonishing)58.097230.5292
exuberant (not subdued)58.094228.526
fortunate (not unlucky)57.962429.8317
wise (not foolish)57.893725.2296
edgy (not politically correct)57.790828.7302
🤔 (not 🤫)57.791130.626
psychopath (not empath)57.755926.646
goth (not flower child)57.553522.321
monotone (not expressive)57.550128.933
debased (not pure)57.473122.9313
technophile (not luddite)57.465627.0236
specialist (not generalist)57.397630.796
natural-talent (not hard-work)57.343331.549
curious (not apathetic)57.1128729.3289
cruel (not kind)57.042223.2321
hoarder (not unprepared)57.0101121.5240
punchable (not loveable)56.953825.245
Roman (not Greek)56.865633.025
indulgent (not sober)56.687729.5306
builder (not explorer)56.672631.1259
monastic (not hedonist)56.652026.916
forward-thinking (not stuck-in-the-past)56.689427.649
works hard (not plays hard)56.5121326.5325
👩‍🔬 (not 👩‍🎤)56.577732.340
heroic (not villainous)56.4135522.9324
family-first (not work-first)56.388529.2288
whippersnapper (not sage)56.373129.523
adventurous (not stick-in-the-mud)56.1104130.1266
conventional (not creative)55.871929.8298
chortling (not giggling)55.8111927.731
impulsive (not cautious)55.787530.0326
fearmongering (not reassuring)55.764032.616
decorative (not utilitarian)55.552630.1107
existentialist (not nihilist)54.8118926.9108
anxious (not calm)54.3109027.3283
claustrophobic (not spelunker)54.250929.421
tautology (not oxymoron)54.239731.517
Swedish (not Italian)54.178330.828
money-focused (not love-focused)54.056825.724
mathematical (not literary)53.963030.5283
heathen (not devout)53.875525.3299
close-minded (not open-minded)53.565427.3334
humorless (not funny)53.469926.7315
self-destructive (not self-improving)53.398328.336
shallow (not deep)53.156127.653
variable (not consistent)52.964529.831
reasonable (not deranged)52.8111230.920
sheriff (not outlaw)52.794329.4285
indie (not pop)52.6127930.028
gossiping (not confidential)52.558630.4264
📉 (not 📈)52.545931.123
enlightened (not lost)52.583022.626
dispassionate (not romantic)52.550128.229
repetitive (not varied)52.4116828.8127
monochrome (not multicolored)52.395931.1111
fixable (not unfixable)52.2121726.233
crafty (not scholarly)52.1117629.1257
🤐 (not 😜)52.1100633.030
🥶 (not 🥵)52.174828.627
not genocidal (not genocidal)52.0143928.425
bored (not interested)51.737931.732
leisurely (not hurried)51.672027.8284
soulless (not soulful)51.645724.6116
traumatized (not flourishing)51.4135227.836
tattle-tale (not f***-the-police)51.470232.927
no-nonsense (not dramatic)51.289732.6128
ranged (not melee)51.2122331.319
radical (not centrist)51.2110328.621
basic (not hipster)50.1126631.4300
bright (not depressed)50.8101326.8241
subjective (not objective)50.8102030.9100
reliable (not experimental)50.8110226.219
avant-garde (not classical)50.382228.5115
unorthodox (not traditional)50.7112928.4113
white knight (not bad boy)50.3119528.416
'left-brained' (not 'right-brained')50.6104733.3193
conservative (not liberal)50.668331.023
🙃 (not 🥰)50.690627.240
🥳 (not 🥴)50.681224.727
🛌 (not 🧗)50.567132.033

The lowest rating for any description in the table is 50.0 despite a 1 to 100 scale being used. This is because descriptions that had values lower than the midpoint were reversed. For example, a score of 1/100 for "hot (not cold)" is equivalent to a score of 100/100 for "cold (not hot)". This was done so that all the traits that are most distinctive for a character are at the top of the table.

Similar characters

The similarity between two characters can be calculated by taking the correlation between the lists of their traits. This produces a value from +1 to -1. With +1 implying that every trait one character is high on the other one is high on too, to an equal degree. And, -1 implying that if a character is high on specific trait, the other one is low on it. The 10 most and least similar characters to Lady Mary Crawley based on their crowd-sourced profiles are listed below with the correlation in parenthesis.

Most similar Least similar
  1. Miranda Priestly (0.869)
  2. Shiv Roy (0.848)
  3. Olivia Pope (0.846)
  4. Sylvie Grateau (0.843)
  5. Blair Waldorf (0.837)
  6. Harvey Specter (0.831)
  7. Diane Lockhart (0.827)
  8. Charlotte Hale (0.825)
  9. Zelda Spellman (0.82)
  10. Jessica Pearson (0.814)
  1. Kevin Malone (-0.642)
  2. Nelson Bighetti (-0.622)
  3. Lenny (-0.613)
  4. Barney Gumble (-0.575)
  5. Steve Brady (-0.561)
  6. Kermit (-0.547)
  7. Rom (-0.546)
  8. Leopold 'Butters' Stotch (-0.539)
  9. The Scarecrow (-0.535)
  10. Jerry Gergich (-0.529)

Personality types

Users who took the quiz were asked to self-identify their Myers-Briggs and Enneagram types. We can look at the average match scores of these different groups of users with Lady Mary Crawley to see what personality types people who describe themselves in ways similar to the way Lady Mary Crawley is described identify as.

Myers-Briggs Self-type Average match score with character Number of users


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